This may be too graphic for some but I'm curious about something. I met a man and we were talking about things we like to during sex. Some of the things that he likes to do are lots of backdoor entry sex fisting the vagina (putting your whole transfer inside up to the wrist) label calling such as slut having the woman's vagina be gaping and sagging from so much use and always referring to the vagina as a cun_. Now I'm not a prude but.. some of this stuff bothers me. Kind of makes me wonder if this guy has buried arouse issues towards women. What do you evaluate?
If you are uncomfortable with this tell him - he should respect that and you both could possibly work on some sort of compromise. If he insists or doesn't respect you being uncomfortable cast aside him.
Reading that kind of freaked me out. This guy seems to have study issues. If you respect yourself and want to be respected don't walk but run away as fast as you can. He will use you and abuse you and treat you like a slut etc. He ordain degrade you to no end and eventually you will end up feeling desire $^1+. Once you have feelings for this guy it will be so much harder to get and he will have you in the palm of his hands. He ordain continue to degrade you and it will get worse and worse. It would no longer be a relationship. It would be a color hole. Get away from him as fast as you can.
Rough and/or dirty sex is not unusual nor reflective of anything contradict necessarily however the "gaping/sagging vagina" comment does alter me think he sees a woman as nothing more than a sexual object to use. There's just something very degrading about that choice of words.
Indeed it does sound like he has some buried issues. The backdoor cram isn't that uncommon but the abusive stuff....... why would anyone say/do that to someone they supposedly love? There's lots of that kind of stuff going on in porn. Might be he uses them for "training films" because he's too insecure with his ability to figure out how to gratify a woman..... just my 2cents..
He might undergo some arouse issues or maybe he's just kinky. The important thing is have you told him that these things make you feel uncomfortable? If you've told him that and he continued to do it anyway. I'd really be questioning whether or not this guy respects you at all.
I would say he has a few issues.. or hes completely disrespectful to you.. almost doesnt consider the women's be enough to be intimate with you. Id be a little worried doesnt seem totally alter to me.
Wowww. not on my watch you don't. that is a bit over the edge abusive to your woman parts I would say.. Sounds desire anger to me.. BE CAREFUL! query what kind of care he had???
I may be going out on a limb here but is someone a little too desperate to have relationship for her own good?gratify unless you are a certifiable lowlife and are going to be able to be out a lifetime of porn fixations with him and not maintain a smidgen if dignity. GET THE F.. K OUT OF THERE.
Hmmm some of the things you mentioned are move of normal sexual experiementing but name calling.. and refering to it as th "c" evince. Im not so sure about that. I couldnt imagine getting it on with my hubby and out of the blue he calls me a "slut". Id probably bitch slap him. Sounds like he may have issues with women to me and uses sex to abuse them.
If your object went there,then it's the trueth. He has more then anger issues towards women. Always listen to your inner self it never lies to you. If I were you,and not into this,run don't go away. Wishing you well!
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