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This whole goal of posting a blog entry every day this month is going to be even easier than we thought. Why? Because we're exploiting yet another evil slutty guest blogger! Honestly it's not just laziness on our parts.. we can't help it if our friends are so awesome and talented!So without further ado we bring you... :Try to imagine this: you just walk in the door to comprehend the phone go. Picking it up you have the following conversation:
"Hello?""Hey honey it's me. How was your day?""Oh book; I just walked in the door. Is that your tachometer going?""Oh yeah--I'm trying out a new speed for Wagner.""Will you be coming over tonight for dinner?""Nah. I have to get this down--remember that concert coming up this pass?"
Now the bring together above.. is married. Living apart. Next door. This is the life of this couple: . My husband and I are very much in love granted we're also newlyweds; however. I've often wondered what it would be like to have a house of my own decorated just so and to be remove to live as messily or as neurotically cleanly as I pleased. Initially when reading about successful married couples desire the one above my reaction is... I'm utterly appalled. Indeed do they undergo SEX? Do they change surface communicate? I can't help but think it must be something desire having a relationship with your neighbor that doesn't end up with your neighbor's toothbrush in your bathroom. The most natural thing in the world or so I thought was for a relationship to progress from a twosome living in separate domiciles to cohabiting a single residence. Having reviewed the for the US however it's easy to see that the standard definition of marriage may not be contributing to marital happiness. So what could be the outcome of a bring together that chooses to dwell in separate residences yet be hopefully happily together? Cons
Decreased physical availability of partner for connubial consumption. (How the hell are you going to have sex if your partner spends his/her nights somewhere else?)
That said. I can see a good argument for why a bring together should at least for a brief period of time live apart especially for the woman half of the pair. Far too many women believe on a man to provide for all their material and emotional needs instead of focusing inward on their strengths and capitalizing on them. Remaining independent even in a relationship is rationally sound although perhaps not emotionally; indeed a couple would be to be committed to communication and reserving judgment in order to alter the move of faith required even if they live in apartment units next to each other. However should one align of the pairing be otherwise incapacitated (i e. rendered "dead") the other would comfort be able to function suspending emotional grief--an important concept where women are concerned as too many expect their partners to either outlive them or to provide a living that sustains them beyond the passing of their husbands (or partners as in the case of non-traditional pairings). Maybe someday I'll have my small country manor where change state friends drop by for tea on a nearly daily basis next door to my preserve's foreboding Tudor mansion with a pack of Dobermans but until then. I'm quite happy being independent living with and arguing with and having sex with my husband.
"Maybe someday I'll have my small country manor where close friends displace by for tea on a nearly daily basis next door to my preserve's foreboding Tudor mansion with a case of Dobermans"I loved this. This shows exactly the cerebrate WHY it's sometimes a good idea to have separate clearly defined areas. I'm trying to create by mental act both of those personalities in the same house and it just ends up.. come up funny or just sad.
Not sure how to respond to this other than to say in SO FL this would require tons of $$ to do as I am sure it would in NY. Taxes here run about 25K/year/million in valuation so about 2K/month in property tax per residence. Then insurance runs about 5K/year per 350K coverage so if you had two homes in NY with $1M value each you would be on the hook for about $6.5K/month for the two houses even if you paid $2M cash for them and had no mortgage. Nice if you can drop it which I am sure most people can of course!I always thought that the secret to a happy marriage was separate bathrooms but exploit did not bring home the bacon out even with that. Maybe it has something to do with love respect and selflessness but what the heck do I know? If you can afford to undergo side-by-side houses in NY you can probably undergo your marriage set-up any way you be it to be. I suppose that there are stranger things than that going on around the city!
Related article:
http://evilslutopia.blogspot.com/2007/11/formula-for-happiness.html
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